In my last post, I discussed the possibility of entertaining my Sweet Brazilian Boy while my son was at home.
Brazilian boy had been trying to arrange a meeting all week and sent me Grindr messages each day:
- Are you avaible today? :) I am horny lol
- I am avaible in the weekend. It is up to you my sweet friend.
- I am missing your kisses!
- I love to stay with you... it is always a good time yo share. Very sexy and sweet canadian ever!
- cant wait to see you!
As it turned out, my middle daughter was arriving home from university that same evening. Since she and my son are very close, I suggested that he and my oldest daughter pick her at the airport and spend the evening hanging out at my ex's house.
My son accepted this suggestion readily, so Brazilian Boy and I spent a sweet four hours in bed without having to deal with the issue of introductions. He is a passionate and sweet kisser and we spent hours kissing, caressing, sucking cock and sleeping in each other's arms, as well as cumming twice, each. Bliss!
Ironically, this 21 year old has taught me more than anyone about the value of slowing down during love-making; to savour gentle, slow kisses.
Two years ago, I posted about being sent fully-naked pictures showing the full face of a publicly elected official in my town. The pics featured ass cheeks spread wide open and open crotch shots in abundance.... but the worst part was that the Gay Politician was morbidly obese, +400 pounds at least. Ewww!
I had previously met Gay Politician because his daughters had attended my school; we served together on Parent Council.
Since then, Gay Politican (55 years old) divorced, came out and is now an advocate for the LGBTQ cause. His photo regularly appears local newspaper ads: "City of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ : a Proud Supporter of Pride Week!" I admire how he has embraced his late-in-life coming out.
In recent months, Gay Politician has been messaging me persistently on Scruff, Grindr and Squirt.org, suggesting a meeting. Finally, I told him: "Fred, we've met in real life. We served on Parent Council together ten years ago," and signed off with my real name.
He followed up with repeated requests for a coffee date. I reluctantly agreed, but I warned him that I was recently divorced and was in no way ready to date anyone, let alone an LTR. I also told him that I wasn't attracted to overweight people. Due to his aggressiveness, I felt the need to be really blunt.
Our coffee date today went well; he was charming, intelligent, ambitious and okay-looking but with unique, brilliant blue eyes. We had much to talk about during our 90 minute coffee date.
He had bariatric surgery last year and so far, has lost 160 pounds with another 100 pounds to go. Gay Politican looked better but the yards of loose skin were not a pretty sight. He is still massive and in fact, had difficulty walking due to his obesity.
He was quite touchy-feely during our coffee date and insisted on giving me a big hug at the end. Gay Politician said he hoped to see me again and he said: "I know you don't like fat people", and suggested going to the theatre or a restaurant another day.
I agreed that I was definitely not attracted to overweight people and said, cautiously, that I would consider going out to dinner with him. I cannot imagine in a million years going to bed with someone who I considered so physically unattractive, no matter how much more weight he lost.
This is a bit of a dilemma: Gay Politican is seeking an LTR and I am definitely not interested in him in that way. I wouldn't mind being his platonic friend but by agreeing to go out with him, I fear he will continue to push for something more. Tricky!